Relationship Issues and Problems

Relationship Issues?

Hello everyone. I know it has been quite a while when I have updated my Book of Love, Relationship and Romance. I am really sorry about that. Got some other important errands to work on.

Anyway, I know you all got caught up about all the quotes I have updated from the last chapter, they might gave your relationship a sort of spice and made you more vulnerable and inspired. That's definitely good to know if that's the case, but here let me tell you this. Not just these lovely and inspiring quotes will truly inspire and challenge your relationship to make it stronger and healthy, a little spice of issues and misunderstanding will also do. Don't you see, the more you fight the more reason you want to stay and fight for your relationship. At least you get to argue with things telling everyone that Hey! We’re fighting because we want this issue to be over and get over with tis freaking problem. Makes your relationship stronger right? Getting through all those issues and hurdles. But wait! Too much might be dangerous, remember when it's too much, you might lose the grip.

In this chapter, here are some of the common issues when it comes to relationship. Let's all take some time to read these and let's see if you are experiencing such. Much more, let us ponder and take not all of these at least to help us avoid having this issues in the near future.

The very first issue/problem we have here is LACK OF COMMUNICATION

Yes! Did you ever remember, as discussed on my previous chapter, to have a healthy relationship is to have good communication. And when you don't have this, then you will eventually turn everything sour and unhealthy. Why? This is the most neglected issue among couples. You guys think or most of them think that communication is ok with or without. Well it's not ok to have NO or maybe shall we say LACK of communication. How will you ever resolve any unfinished matters without this? How will you express your thoughts and opinions on your current relationship when you don't talk? How will you ever reach out to your partner when you don't even speak out? True that action speaks louder than words but as you see, you use your words to give emphasis on your actions. Well better work on your communication before it's too late.

Second common problem that usually occurs is INFIDELITY/AFFAIR

Well, one of the biggest issue of all is infidelity and definitely one of the major cause of break-ups. Reality check, some people just don't know how to be honest and loyal. But such doesn't only apply to Men, which I know you are thinking of right now, some Women does and that really drives me crazy. Having an affair with someone else is like killing your own self. Why? When you don't get to respect your partner, I'm pertaining to the real one then you aren't giving any respect to yourself too, and you then doomed. Try to at least divert such intention once you think you are going to the 'infidelity' path. You may be going there but at least stop and think, look back from the person you are right now, does she/he deserves to get hurt? You should know the answer yourself.

Third issue is MONEY

Who doesn't care about this matter? We all do right? And for the record, this could greatly affect any relationship. And when it comes to your romantic relationship, when this becomes an issue, try to resolve it as soon as possible. This can break you guys, I tell you. At the very first moment that you had encounter this, start working it out, eventually when you both decides to wed, at least now you know how to manage it well.

Fourth common problem is LACK OF SUPPORT

In any good or bad your partner doesn’t, be with him/her. At good time to appreciate all the efforts and success, share the laughter and tears of joy, embrace together the smell of success. During the bad time, the more your partner needs your support, not appreciate it but the other way around. Your partner needs most your guidance and understanding. Help him/her to understand the wrong from right and let him/her feel that it is ok to commit mistakes, human as we are. Be there to cheer your partner up, that's the only way to get things in shape. Please don't neglect this factor, everyone needs this, even I do. Take the wheel for your partner and be the guide he/she could best have.

Last top for my Top 5 issues and problems is LACK OF TRUST

There, to build a healthy relationship, trust must be one good factor that should be best applied. As mentioned from my previous chapter if you were able to read it, Trust is very essential. It's like the air we breathe every day, we need trust to maintain the foundation of our relationship. When we lose such, we lose our selves and we might lose our relationship or worst case scenario, we might lose everything.

There you go guys, my Top 5 most common issue and problems each and every faces. I hope you did learned something. Next chapter would be a pre-requisite of today's chapter. We will then talk about the tips on how to avoid these issues and their best solutions. See you next time. Happy reading everyone. Love love love.

M.