What is relationship?

What is relationship?

Human as we are, we do have this so called feeling and wants to be with someone whom we probably care about, need, or could be someone that we wanted to be around us all the time. It's one of humans’ nature, the need of someone to make us feel cared, loved and treasured. These needs can be through your family, friends, peers, workmates, org members or could be someone that you met unplanned.

In this chapter of my blog, or I prefer calling it my book of love, relationship and romance, I will be more than interested to share with all of you my insights, opinions and best judgment when it comes to love and relationship. I myself have been in such situation, always. Always like I never wanted to be alone, just like you guys out there, we have this urge to be with someone not just because we need someone to make us feel loved but because we are too afraid to be alone, and that is a fact.

Yes! I want to stress it out personal, from our inner humane, we are too much afraid to be alone in every journey of our life. And because of that want and need to have that somebody, we explore and look at things differently. Now then comes what we call love, that feeling that blossoms in time. A feeling that needs not to be rushed and be taken for granted. Love is not just simply a feeling a person's feel towards the opposite ex or could be on same sex, but love is also an action we bestow towards the people we don't want to loose and we wanted for keeps. An action we are usually good at, love is the most extraordinary thing in this world that could either make or break. And when that emotion grows, eventually it develops and prosper into the so called relationship.

But what does relationship really means? Such words has different meaning such as to bind, and attachment, or could be a state of being connected which are most likely applicable to friend and family.

But what does relationship means between two individual who are in love? Well, for me, the best way to describe relationship is

 'a connection of two people who are having a romantic affair and are both emotionally in love, attached and committed'

It's just all about connection isn’t it? But in an intimate way. But to be honest, if we go on and dig deeper, relationship isn’t just a word that is all about love and commitment. Such is a very complex word that could mean anything. When we are in a relationship, we see things differently. We sometimes misinterpret things because there are different ways in a relationship, one could be a healthy one and the other could be the opposite. We may be blind not to see these things but somehow there are ways for you to be able to understand the true meaning of relationship. Either you are both in a healthy state or the other way around.

Later on, I will be digging more and more and will be discussing the different ways of relationship, as I move forward you will learn a lot of things and then realize, have I been like this and that? Are we both this and that? What if?

Yes there may be questions right now that are starting to build in your mind, but just chill and relax, you will soon be able to understand these things as we move on with my Book of Love Relationship and Romance. We will talk more and take things so different levels. Next in this chapter, we will talk about a Healthy Relationship. Stay tuned and see you the soonest my happy reader.

M.