Relationship Issues?
Hello everyone. I know it has been quite a while when I have
updated my Book of Love, Relationship and Romance. I am really sorry about
that. Got some other important errands to work on.
Anyway, I know you all got caught up about all the quotes I have
updated from the last chapter, they might gave your relationship a sort of
spice and made you more vulnerable and inspired. That's definitely good to know
if that's the case, but here let me tell you this. Not just these lovely and
inspiring quotes will truly inspire and challenge your relationship to make it
stronger and healthy, a little spice of issues and misunderstanding will also
do. Don't you see, the more you fight the more reason you want to stay and
fight for your relationship. At least you get to argue with things telling
everyone that Hey! We’re fighting because we want this issue to be over and get
over with tis freaking problem. Makes your relationship stronger right? Getting
through all those issues and hurdles. But wait! Too much might be dangerous,
remember when it's too much, you might lose the grip.
In this chapter, here are some of the common issues when it
comes to relationship. Let's all take some time to read these and let's see if
you are experiencing such. Much more, let us ponder and take not all of these
at least to help us avoid having this issues in the near future.
The very first issue/problem we have here is LACK OF
COMMUNICATION
Yes! Did you ever remember, as discussed on my previous
chapter, to have a healthy relationship is to have good communication. And when
you don't have this, then you will eventually turn everything sour and
unhealthy. Why? This is the most neglected issue among couples. You guys think
or most of them think that communication is ok with or without. Well it's not
ok to have NO or maybe shall we say LACK of communication. How will you ever
resolve any unfinished matters without this? How will you express your thoughts
and opinions on your current relationship when you don't talk? How will you
ever reach out to your partner when you don't even speak out? True that action
speaks louder than words but as you see, you use your words to give emphasis on
your actions. Well better work on your communication before it's too late.
Second common problem that usually occurs is
INFIDELITY/AFFAIR
Well, one of the biggest issue of all is infidelity and
definitely one of the major cause of break-ups. Reality check, some people just
don't know how to be honest and loyal. But such doesn't only apply to Men,
which I know you are thinking of right now, some Women does and that really
drives me crazy. Having an affair with someone else is like killing your own
self. Why? When you don't get to respect your partner, I'm pertaining to the
real one then you aren't giving any respect to yourself too, and you then
doomed. Try to at least divert such intention once you think you are going to
the 'infidelity' path. You may be going there but at least stop and think, look
back from the person you are right now, does she/he deserves to get hurt? You
should know the answer yourself.
Third issue is MONEY
Who doesn't care about this matter? We all do right? And for
the record, this could greatly affect any relationship. And when it comes to
your romantic relationship, when this becomes an issue, try to resolve it as
soon as possible. This can break you guys, I tell you. At the very first moment
that you had encounter this, start working it out, eventually when you both
decides to wed, at least now you know how to manage it well.
Fourth common problem is LACK OF SUPPORT
In any good or bad your partner doesn’t, be with him/her. At
good time to appreciate all the efforts and success, share the laughter and
tears of joy, embrace together the smell of success. During the bad time, the
more your partner needs your support, not appreciate it but the other way
around. Your partner needs most your guidance and understanding. Help him/her
to understand the wrong from right and let him/her feel that it is ok to commit
mistakes, human as we are. Be there to cheer your partner up, that's the only
way to get things in shape. Please don't neglect this factor, everyone needs
this, even I do. Take the wheel for your partner and be the guide he/she could
best have.
Last top for my Top 5 issues and problems is LACK OF TRUST
There, to build a healthy relationship, trust must be one
good factor that should be best applied. As mentioned from my previous chapter
if you were able to read it, Trust is very essential. It's like the air we
breathe every day, we need trust to maintain the foundation of our
relationship. When we lose such, we lose our selves and we might lose our
relationship or worst case scenario, we might lose everything.
There you go guys, my Top 5 most common issue and problems
each and every faces. I hope you did learned something. Next chapter would be a
pre-requisite of today's chapter. We will then talk about the tips on how to avoid
these issues and their best solutions. See you next time. Happy reading
everyone. Love love love.
M.